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ffutures ([personal profile] ffutures) wrote2010-01-12 06:49 pm

Cancer Meme

I think that cancer is a bad thing, since it has killed several members of my family. I do not believe that posting a meme saying that cancer is a bad thing does any good whatever. I do not believe that trying to guilt people out by doing so helps at all.

If you want to do something about cancer, donate money to medical research, taking care to find a charity that appears to be doing some good.

Please don't pass this on. Guilt trip memes are nobody's friend, and part of the idea of free will is that people get to make their own decisions.

[identity profile] ffutures.livejournal.com 2010-01-13 02:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks

[identity profile] fjm.livejournal.com 2010-01-12 07:26 pm (UTC)(link)
Agreed. I was squicked out by that one.

[identity profile] ffutures.livejournal.com 2010-01-12 09:30 pm (UTC)(link)
Me too.
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[identity profile] akicif.livejournal.com 2010-01-12 07:40 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah. Also the whole bravery/courage/battle thing comes very close to blaming the victim....

[identity profile] ffutures.livejournal.com 2010-01-12 09:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Hadn't even thought about that but you're right, of course.

[identity profile] curiouswombat.livejournal.com 2010-01-12 08:59 pm (UTC)(link)
As you know, I totally agree with you on this.

[identity profile] ffutures.livejournal.com 2010-01-12 09:30 pm (UTC)(link)
I hadn't seen the actual meme thing yesterday - seen it four times today. And I really dislike it.

[identity profile] lil-shepherd.livejournal.com 2010-01-12 10:46 pm (UTC)(link)
I've been ignoring it, because I don't do the chain-letter thing (which is basically what this is.) However, I totally support your stand.

[identity profile] ffutures.livejournal.com 2010-01-12 11:30 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks!

[identity profile] jeymien.livejournal.com 2010-01-13 01:44 pm (UTC)(link)
I did it because I have several family members lost to it, and my husband is currently cancer-free now. I didn't see it that way at all. I donate, I support cancer research. The meme was about supporting all the people who live with cancer and their families. It was about showing that, for me. I don't really expect people to pass it on, or feel like I was making anyone feel guilty. This was just something that hit very close to home for me.

[identity profile] ffutures.livejournal.com 2010-01-13 02:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Sorry if I've upset you, I found the original one very annoying.

[identity profile] jeymien.livejournal.com 2010-01-13 02:51 pm (UTC)(link)
Wasn't really upsetting me, everyone's entitled to their opinion. I just felt I had to explain why I put my meme up. It may be that alot of the other people doing it, are doing it for the same reason.

[identity profile] gonzo21.livejournal.com 2010-01-13 02:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Well said.

[identity profile] ffutures.livejournal.com 2010-01-13 02:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks